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Ask Nora Psychic Advice Column
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July 05, 2008
I applied for a new job where I would be temporary acting as a boss and making more money. If I get it, will they keep me?
From what I am seeing, although you are very ambitious and very excited to apply yourself to new challenges and prove your abilities and your talents, you are still seen as too new and inexperienced within the company to function at this level.
I sense you will not be chosen for the position unfortunately, although you will be thanked for you application and it will be noted that you are an enthusiastic and ambitious person who is out to achieve her goals. This will aid you in the future. It is just that at this point, I sense there will be a general consensus that you require more experience working within the organization before being able to step into those shoes. This will be a blessing in disguise however, and you will have the opportunity to apply yourself in other ways in the future and be received and seen as more experienced and more well cemented within the organization, and experience success later on.
April 22, 2008
Am I going to finish my CPA course and graduate?
Yes, you are. It's normal to feel this anxiety and uncertainty in the latter part of your studies because you have poured so much effort into it, and yet feel like the biggest hurdle is ahead of you.
You are a very intelligent person, you are grasping the concepts well, applying yourself and carefully studying and practicing what you have learned in order to retain and solidify your understanding. You have all of the right potential and skills hun, and you are focusing and giving your time and energy in all of the right ways. You will do very well, and from what I am seeing place one of the highest in your group in terms of scores.
February 14, 2008
My husband has been really aggressive and angry these days. He seems to be really frustrated with me especially. I can't think of anything I have done though to warrant this. What's going on with him?
From what I am sensing your husband is feeling very insecure and threatened in his position with you. I sense he feels like he has been on the back burner, not a priority to you, and feels like you are pulling away from him. He has never really felt comfortable opening up to you or talking about what he is going through emotionally when he is feeling vulnerable, so he has not been able to openly tell you about it. He has tried to bottle up and ignore his feelings of insecurity, but it has just continued to snowball until now, when he is overwhelmed by negativity, feeling angry, and he lashes out in frustration.
From what I am seeing hun the two of you need help finding better communication and better understanding of each other because this path is very destructive and causes a more significant rift and divide between you with each incident and every fight.
He loves you so much still, he just doesn't know how to tell you he is hurting, that he feels like you don't love him as much anyway, and his frustration with and inability to deal with it in a positive way is just adding to the problem.
November 29, 2007
I suspect my friend Mike is having a relationship. We are best friends, and it's so obvious, but he seems to be keeping it a secret for some reason. Can you tell me why?
Mike sees you as a very good friend. He cares about you, and he is more than happy to be there for you and offer the male perspective, and his support when you are experiencing difficulties in love and relationships, however when it comes to his own relationships and romantic connections, I do not see him feeling comfortable discussing these things with you or being open about it to you.
This goes back to the beginning of your friendship, which I am seeing started out as dating, seeing if there was a connection or a physical attraction worth building on. I sense he felt kind of rejected at first, but felt blessed and fortunate to have you in his life, even just as a friend. Eventually those feelings dwindled and grew into a very nurturing and positive friendship, however he does still have strong feelings for you and will always wonder what could have been between you if you had felt differently.
This is why he does not open up to you about love and relationships and romance in his life. He keeps it completely separate from you as he is afraid it may raise some awkward conversations or brew up feelings within him he wants to lay buried.
This is a part of him I sense he will always keep hidden from you... for the sake of keeping the friendship strong and free of drama and emotional baggage from the past. This may not be the best option, but he means well.
He is indeed in a relationship, he is happy and it is going well, however he doesn't feel that click or that purpose he did with you, which is probably a huge part of why he is hiding it from you. He wants to avoid discussing or explaining that to you of all people.
October 19, 2007
Nora our family has had money problems for so long and every time I turn around it is something new that needs fixed or the kids need. I can't ever get away from it and the debt is overwhelming. What is going to happen to us?
Unfortunately many of your problems come from a pattern of living outside of your means and holding on to hope and faith that a windfall in the future would take care of the debt you were digging yourself into. While you are very modest and reasonable people, there are limitations to the expenses you can afford due to so many obligations, feels like responsibilities to children, and also I see you are providing assistance to a parent financially.
In supporting so many people, your budget is stretched very thin, and for years you have lived outside of those means, in order to enjoy the meager luxuries you have indulged in. Unfortunately that small amount of debt amassed each year has snowballed to a virtually insurmountable amount, and though you hope to somehow find your way out of it, options look grim and you are considering possibly having to lose your home.
A significant change of lifestyle, tightening of belts and change in behavior pattern is needed to turn this around, as the amount of debt is significant, and will take years to tackle. Laying off of personal indulgences, entertainment expenditures as well as finding another means of additional income are things that will help you and empower you to change things around and head in a positive direction. Many of your actions, choices and behaviors as a family, in terms of money, are self defeating, and a good hard and honest look at that, in conjunction with a willingness to change, will get you through to better more consistent and stable financial times.
September 13, 2007
Is she lying to me? She says one thing but it can be so hard to believe. And then I find things, and what does that mean?
I do sense a lot of deception in her heart. She has deceived you and I see really clearly that you know this already. You stay not because you are unsure, but because you are afraid to walk away from the relationship and be alone.
But hun, this relationship is very isolating and lonely for you. You are being misled, hurt, lied to, and it eats away at you inside. The emotional toll this is taking on you is more severe than any sadness or loss you would feel at being alone.
It is very important at this point, to evaluate your position, establish what you know and not be afraid to trust your intuition, and make choices that are right for you, based on a hope for a better future, and getting freedom from negativity and the destructive pattern of being connected to someone who lies and has no regard for your feelings.
August 22, 2007
Does he really even know I exist?
I can tell you really care for him a lot, and that it really affects you deeply to feel so inconsequential and meaningless to him. From what I am seeing, he is aware of you, he has noticed you, but his interest has not gone beyond that. He is not selfish or cold, he is not ignoring you, he just hasn't felt a connection or a bond to you, and it hasn't made you stand out to him.
If you were to approach him, to open up to him a bit, he would notice you, and you would exist and become meaningful to him. But in order to do that hun, you have to shed this outer shell, leave your cocoon and put yourself out there, make yourself visible, speak to him, approach him, and not hide behind an infatuation that makes you feel frozen in place, and lost to his indifference.
If anyone needs to notice how special you are hun, it's you.
July 12, 2007
My father is sick and my sister aren't getting along because of it. He was in the hospital two weeks ago and no one in our family told me or my husband about it. He was there for three days and it was really touch and go. Supposedly he was going to die but he pulled through. He told me he found a cancelled check in his account that he had written to a lawyer while he was in the hospital but he doesn't remember what it was for and he thought I had something to do with it. Can you see what is going on?
First off hun I am very sorry for your father's illness and for the difficulties you are experiencing in your family. From what I am seeing, old family issues that stem from years of perceived unfairness and preferential treatment have manifested into this strange coup that is happening. I see you sister was involved in having your father sign papers of some kind relinquishing control of his finances during his incapacitation. I sense this was done out of a desire to control the situation if he were to pass away in terms of finances.
As awful as that may sound hun, your sister is a good person. This behavior is stemming from a short sighted and selfish desire to prevent you from being treated better than she, as she has always felt you were "the favorite".
Your father needs some help sorting this out, as I sense he is too weak and confused to really investigate, but the lawyer the check was made out to should be contacted to clarify and provide copied of all of the paperwork.
June 29, 2007
Why do I feel like my boyfriend is keeping things from me? He tells me he isn't keeping anything from me. Am I tripping or is he really keeping things from me?
You feel a nagging feeling that he is hiding things from you based on your past experiences. You have some lingering fears that the pain and things have happened for you in the past, will be happening again, so subconsciously you are suspicious and tend to assume and think the negative with every odd thing that comes up.
That being said I do sense he has a lingering connection to someone from his past, a romantic connection that is not completely over. From what I am picking up, he is not actively cheating, but he is hiding this connection from you because he knows you would not approve.
You would be having those fears and worries even if there was nothing to it, because you do have these deeply seeded trust issues. From what I am seeing, there are some important things that need to be worked through, for the both of you to be able to move on in a positive way.
June 26, 2007
My mom is sick and she has a lot of problems with money because of it. Is she gonna lose her house because of it?
Your mother is a very strong woman. While I can see clearly that she is dealing with a significant financial burden right now because of the added expenses regarding medications and medical costs. I see she has been dipping into a fund of money that had initially been set aside for retirement. While this is not ideal, it means that the expenses are not going to have a significant impact on her quality of life.
She will be able to maintain her lifestyle and provide shelter and care for herself. I sense she will also be receiving some assistance from her work, like some kind of disability benefit, to help her while she is not working.
I know it is hard, but she needs your positive vibes and thoughts right now, so try not to worry, and be there for her with supportive words, a smile and a hug, and faith that she will be alright and provided for.
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