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Ask Nora Psychic Advice Column
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February 10, 2006
Nora, I have been in school for a career change for 2 years. I owe a lot of money for classes and for living in the meantime, because I can't work and study at the same time. I am almost done the program, and once I graduate I can get work, but I have major doubts. This line of work doesn't seem right for me and I am freaking out... what is wrong with me? What should I do?
I can certainly understand why you would be feeling this kind of pressure, you have worked hard and sacrificed so much to build this new and better life for yourself, and get yourself on a path to financial stability and security.
The big poblem I am seeing here is that you chose this area because it is a stable one, because you see it as something that will always be able to offer you opportunities, no matter what sort of shape the economy is in, and no matter where you live. It's true that this is a very practical field, and I commend you for being as methodical and cautious in your choice as you were, but unfortunately the practical and safe is not always what is rewarding or fulfilling.
I sense that you have ignored your calling, your purpose, because you were afraid there was no feasible way to support yourself and your child (you are a single parent correct?) and you went in another direction and chose something that seemed moderately appealing to you, practical, stable, safe and absolute.
While I can clearly see that you did this all for the right reasons, now that you are faced with entering that field full force, and dedicating the rest of your life to working in that area, it is really hitting home and beginning to feel like a big weight looming overhead. Intertwined in that are fears of failure and the possibility of having wasted thousands of dollars and years of your life to training in a vocation that you are not able to stick to.
Be strong, and remember your original reasons for choosing this line of work. I can see that once you get started it will not feel so bad. I also feel you should continue to do the things you are passionate about and feel drawn to (I am picking up artistic leanings toward design and creative approaches to finding practical and personal solutions to home issues) and try to work this into your life as a hobby or sideline business, so that you do not have this sense of finality in your life of work. Know that later on, when your loans are paid down and you are more stable in your life financially, you will have the opportunity to follow your path and apply yourself in other ways. Look at this work as a temporary arrangement that will allow you to branch out into what you really are meant to be doing!
February 8, 2006
Hi Nora, I am trying to get back with my ex, but I don't know... what do you think?
Honestly hun I am sensing you are apart for a reason. I know that you care for him, and that you love him, and I can clearly sense an attachment on his end as well. He still thinks of you and cares for you, but this relationship is where it is for a reason. While you were together there was a clear lack of communication, and the insurmountable obstacle that he repeatedly threw at you, which was his unwillingness to commit to you and let you in to his life and his heart, without any walls up.
He always kept you at a distance and shut you out when he was vulnerable, when you needed him the most, he was not there for you. This brewed in you a strong wave of self doubt, worry, self consciousness and frustration that began to cause you to feel unhappy. It was not a healthy environment, and your love was not being nurtured, it was not growing and it was not bringing either of you happiness.
I do not sense he has changed, and from what I am seeing hun, it is in your best interest to focus on moving on, finding peace within yourself, and looking forward to a chance at love with someone who appreciates you, is open to you and willing to trust you, support you, and be an active partner in your life.
He is still the same man, with the same behaviour pattern, and so, is best left in the past!
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