Ask Nora Psychic Advice Column
A free weekly advice column from a genuine Psychic Reader.
September 2, 2006
I am having a lot of problems trusting my boyfriend. I see him a lot in places where I didn't know he would be, and he is usually with groups of friends, but there are always one or two pretty girls. Is he being faithful or using these situations to betray me?
Your boyfriend cares for you very much and I do not sense that in his heart he has eyes for any woman but you. I am not picking up any shame, guilt or negative feelings in his heart that would indicate he had betrayed or wronged you, and I do not feel that he has been unfaithful to you in any way. When you have seen him out on the town, the situations have been as pure as they seemed, him with a group of friends.
That being said there is still a very significant problem in your relationship right now, mainly, your insecurities. I know that you have been hurt and cheated on in the past, and that as much as you love him and trust him, it is hard to let go of what happened to you in former relationships and "start fresh" with him. All of this baggage is still clinging to you, and beginning to create a sort of paranoia within you. I want you to understand hun that this is toxic to a relationship, and that you will find him becoming more and more distanced as he realizes that you are not trusting him, not opening up to him or letting him in. He will begin to feel that perhaps in having all of these suspicions, you are looking for excusews to get rid of him, or perhaps even cheating yourself.
I am advising you to open up to him, to let him know that you are very sensetive and worried about faithfulness because of what happened to you in the past. Explain to him that you want to trust him and you want to work through those feelings so you can let go of that doubt and negativity. He needs to know what the problem is, and that you are trying to work through it. He is a very loyal, understanding and loving guy, and if you can find the strength to give him the opportunity to be there for you, you will see you have no reason to mistrust him.
August 31, 2006
Nora, I am being let go from my work. I was hired temporary and I hoped I could stay and be kept on but they have to let me go. I keep getting told that it is just because of the rules and the way contracts have to go, but I am not sure. What do you see? Is there another reason for letting me go?
From what I am picking up this job you have is with a very strict and structured organization with clearly defined and unbending rules when it comes to employment. It feels to be like a Government job, something public where there are rules and regulations in place to maintain transparency and avoid favoritism and other abuses that can sometimes happen. I am seeing that you were hired on what was known to be only a temporary assignment because of a restriction in policy. I sense that someone, it feels to me like your direct supervisor, a name starting with a soft "A" sound is coming across to me, Ann maybe? Anyhow this woman, she fought for you and tried to bend the rules, but it cannot be done.
You are appreciated and valued, and I do not feel any hidden motives in letting you go. What I do pick up though is that this was made clear to you at the beginning, and you made your choice based on that, but that the disappointment now at having to leave is making it difficult to accept. I advise you to ocus on the big picture, be mature, respectful, grateful, and I see you will have opportunities in the future, thanks to this lady. Good luck!
August 28, 2006
I am married to a wonderful man, father of my child. But hes away from home very often (military man). I often get in arguments with him over his faithfullness. Though he swears hes faithful, he has in the past done something I consider cheating while still saying he was always faithfull to me. I still wonder if he is truly faithfull completly and honestly?? Any Ideas if hes truthfull or full of it?
Your husband has a lot of stress in his life. The strain of his work, being away from his family and his comfort zone, takes a real toll on him. Loneliness and peer pressure have sometimes put him in situations he would never have gotten into. I do sense that he feels he is being honest with you. In his heart, he has never loved or wanted anyone but you. In his eyes this is what is important, the love, the heart, the devotion, has only ever been for you. In his mind, this is being a good husband, providing for his family, loving his wife, being a source of security, stability and pride for the family. I think a lot of that has as much to do with excusing his own past behavior so that his conscience can be clear.
That being said hun, I do feel that he has been in situations where you would be very upset to learn of his behaviour. I get a strong sense that there is a lot he has hidden from you, much of which he feels ashamed of, and tries to justify within his own thoughts. I cannot tell you he has been completely faithful to you the entire time you have been together, and from what I am picking up, there is more you are unaware of, but I can tell you with certainty that he has not carried on a relationship with another woman, cared for or loved another woman since you have been together. I can also say with confidence that he loves you, and he wants to be a good husband to you, and he seeks to improve himself and be true.
Ask Psychic Nora
If you would like to submit a question to Nora, please fill out the form below. Each week, two questions will be selected from the pool of eligible questions and answered in the column. Please read the submission guidelines for more information on submitting your question.
Your privacy is important to me. I do not give out, sell or otherwise use any information gathered through this form or any other means on this site. If you have any problems using this form, please contact me directly at my email address .
Psychic Readings by Nora Devan Return to the main index page.
Psychic Readings About Psychic Nora Gem Shop Oracles
Weekly Horoscopes Psychic Development Free Readings
Contact Map Frequently Asked Questions
All site content, utilities and psychic reading services provided by
Accurate Psychic Readings by Psychic Reader Nora Devan
are provided for entertainment and personal growth only.
© Psychic Nora Devan 2005 & 2006 HTML 4.01.
This Site has Terms of Service