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December 2, 2006
My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago after a 4 year relationship and now's seeing a woman for over a month. I really miss him, especially because we got along very well. What are the chances of us getting back together?
He cared for you and enjoyed he time you had together, but I sense he was not ready for the level of committment and closeness that you wanted and were headed toward. I sense that he was very much focused on himself, his needs and his desires, and he felt things with you were developping too quickly, that you were becoming very attached too quickly, and he could foresee it ending badly. He did not want to hurt you, and felt it would be best to put the breaks on the relationship before it got much closer. I sense he knew in his heart that it was not the best thing to do, and that he felt guilt about that, but it was not enough to change his direction and his choice. He did not have the emotional maturity to really talk it out and let you know how he was feeling, so you could work together at keeping things comfortable for him, in many ways because he was too unsure of himself to ace the pain he imagined that would cause you. Essentially he took the easy way out.
From what I am picking up he will not be coming back to you to be in a relationship with you, though I do feel he will reach out to you and attempt to nurture a friendship. I feel it is best at this point to try and let go of your feelings for him and try to heal and move on.
November 27, 2006
When Angela comes back, will she have changed? I don't want it to go back like before, but I love her. I'm not ready to give up.
I get a strong sense that she has some very deeply rooted negativity and self esteem issues that are guiding these poor choices. She is reaching out to the wrong people for validation instead of turning to those who love, appreciate and support her. Until these issues are resolved, until she finds and appreciates herself, the pattern your relationship has had, will continue. She will not change her behaviour within the relationship, her infidelity and her wandering, until she changes the way she feels about herself, the way she defines herself and the way she makes her choices. I know that you love her deeply, and you want this to work, but what she does is not in your control, and you will continue to be hurt again and again, if you keep taking her back.
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