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Ask Nora Psychic Advice Column
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February 1, 2007
I have a really good job offer but I would need to move. It would mean giving up a lot socially including a relationship that has been on and off but lately mostly on. Should I go and see what happens?
This job offer seems to be appealing to you mostly because of the fact that you would have to move. I sense in you a frustration building up, a feeling of stagnation. I feel you are tantalized by the idea of a fresh start, an opportunity to begin your life in a new place, with new surroundings and above all, new people.
The relationship you describe, comes through to me as more suffocating you than fulfilling you. I sense your partner is not a person you love or feel a great deal of affection for, however it is hard for you to push him away and truly end things. You have allowed him to guide the relationship back to "on" status because you were unable to stand up to his pleadings. It is hard for you to be firm and the guilt was too much. You didn't want to hurt him, so you allowed him back into your life, knowing full well it wasn't for the right reason.
The same can be said of some of your relationships with friends and family. When you experience disappointment, frustration or hurt, you do not work it out, let them know, you allow it to continue to avoid confrontation, until it builds up inside you and is an overwhelming sense of resentment and annoyance.
This is not healthy. I see your excitement about moving as a way of running away from all of that. But the truth of the matter is, without changing the behavior, without sticking up for yourself and letting people know when they hurt you, establishing your needs and your feelings, you will continue to experience this pattern with people you form bonds with, everywhere you go.
This job opportunity is a good one, but there is nothing so different about it to motivate your desire to go. Be honest with yourself about the motivation, and take a deep, long look at yourself, try to see the pattern, the theme in your personal relationships, and try advocating for yourself. People can only change for you and meet your needs, if you let them know what they are.
That being said, I do sense the job itself would be acceptable, but I do see that you would have some regrets. This job I see having less room for advancement, and being more stressful and demanding of you.
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