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Ask Nora Psychic Advice Column
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April 08, 2007
Why does my boyfriend always have other women and so many friends around him? Is he ever going to make me a priority?
I sense he has a lot of insecurities and a rather low opinion of himself. He seeks out the respect, affection and approval of others to validate himself and feel worthwhile. I do sense he genuinely loves you and is happy to have you in his life, but that he has such a priority on wanting to be liked by large amounts of people. He is always trying to please and impress everyone, and you are just one part of that crowd. Essentially, within himself, he is not capable of making you a priority, because just you loving him, liking him and caring for him, is not enough. He needs his buddies to think he is cool, he needs the women at the clubs to think he is hot, he needs his bosses at work to think he is valuable, intelligent and reliable just as much, so he can feel like a worthy person.
The problem is not how he feels about you or how you feel about him, it is how he feels about himself, and where he is getting his sense of self and completion. Unless he starts identifying with hiws values and his worth internally, finding a sense of identity and value inside himself, he will continue to reach out to anyone, to feel special, and to surround himself with many people, so he can feel liked, popular and special.
I am not sensing he is anywhere near a breakthrough at this point, and that this will continue to be an issue in your relationship. I wish you all the best, but suggest it is time to begin thinking about boundaries and how much longer you are willing to be in this relationship situation.
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