Norah
I'm going through a difficult time at the moment as my husband has left for someone else, although I think he is still unsure of his feelings for me as he doesn't seem to want to let go. What do i need to know about our relationship in order to understand where it failed?

Hi Jill sweetie,

your husband still cares for you and doesn't seem to want to completely close the door on your life together. I sense he is having a bit of a wanting to have his cake and eat it too moment. Right now he is being motivated by selfishness and fear, fear that life is passing him by and he was somehow wasting or missing opportunities to live (this person he is seeing was giving him a sense of that, youth, vibrance, freedom, it's not lasting though and I sense he is quickly becoming disenchanted with the whole thing), but his actions have consequences, and he has hurt you terribly in his choices.

It wasn't so much the relationship that failed hun, you never pushed him away or treated him in a way that was hurtful and drove a wedge between you, he just lost sight of what was really important, and was lured away by delusions, false ideas and selfish desires for something new and exciting. He didn't stay true to your love and unfortunately there is nothing you could have done or can do at this point to fix or change that.

He is a good man, he has just made some horrid choices, choices he has already begun to regret.

Best wishes to you hun,

In Love and Light,
Nora