Destiny and Free Will in Psychic Readings

In my work as a Psychic reader, from time to time the issue of accuracy in prediction will come up. While it can be lengthy to explain, it is very worthwhile that everyone have a true understanding of the role of free will and choice in the way our lives progress. It is necessary as well, to have a basic understanding of this concept, in order to fully apply the benefit of predictions and Psychic readings to your situation.

It is extremely important to understand the role of free will in the way our lives are laid out. At any given time we are faced with innumerable choices, each of which, if made a different way that we are intended by fate, would change our path. So even if an event is destined, it is possible that it will not happen. That can often be very difficult to incorporate into one’s ideas of the purpose for and value in Psychic readings. I have been asked more than once "If you can’t tell me exactly what is going to happen, what is the point?", to which I answer: more important than what I see will be happening, is what you want to happen, and what you can do to influence the situation, and get the best outcome.

For example, I had a client whose son was attending college... he has been doing well in his studies and was close to graduation. She asked me if he would be graduating without complications. She was worried because he was so close and had worked so hard. I explained to her that while I saw this in his path, there was a possibility that he may come across a very passionate and intoxicating love interest very soon, that could divert his attention from his studies and his goals. I explained to her that while it appeared he would stay the course, there was a possibility he would stray and choose to forget about college all together and go travel with this young woman, and that it would cause him much regret later on.

She was very distraught, and asked how to deal with this situation should it arise. I explained to her that trying to help him make the right choice for him in his life, was the only way to influence his path and his destiny.

Sure enough a young woman did start seeing him in October, and they had a very passionate and very time consuming relationship. She wanted to get married right away and move to another state to start a family, and she told him he could easily find work with what education and skills he had already. She was really putting the pressure on, and telling him that if he loved her, he would want to be with her now, and let nothing keep them apart. He was very swept up in it all and was really torn.

My client reminded her son, as he evaluated his choices and looked at his options, of how hard he had worked to get through college and get his degree, how much time and money he had sacrificed to do it, and how important it had always been to him. She encouraged him to look in his heart and ask himself what he truly wanted in life, and reminded him that if this young woman truly loved him and wanted to be with him, she would be willing to wait less than a year to start their life together, in order to let him fulfill his dreams. Basically she got him thinking in the right direction, with supportive words that got the wheels in his mind grinding, thinking of the big picture, using his mind and his feeling to choose wisely.

After much soul searching he agreed, and he explained to his girlfriend that he wanted to stay in school and finish. The relationship quickly soured, she was unable to accept his choice, and she soon became distant and cold. She was hurtful and angry and pushed him away every chance she had.

Very shortly thereafter he found out that she was pregnant and that it could not be his child (they had always been careful, and they had not been together long enough for how far along she was when he found out). He realized that she had just wanted someone to take care of her and give her financial stability and support her, as she ventured into motherhood, he was deeply hurt and broke off all unnecessary contact with her.

When the child was born he asked for a blood test to confirm his suspicions, she refused and avoided all contact with him. She did not seek him for child support, nor did she ever try to claim him as the father of her child.

He finished school and graduated with honors.

Now... all that being said, had I just told my client, your son will meet a woman and fall in love with her and drop out of school and later regret it, in October, it certainly would not have helped her son. When I looked at his situation, I felt very strongly that he would be pulled in her direction, manipulated by her pleadings and her dramatics… but when it actually unfolded, his mother’s support changed his thinking, influenced him in the direction that was better for him, and he made a different choice, a better choice.

It would have just bogged her down with worry and concern.... Had I told her that yes, I saw him dropping out because of a relationship. She would have felt powerless and afraid, worried for her son's future and happiness. Instead I told her about a potential obstacle (this woman coming into her son's life) and gave her the tools to try and influence the situation and help him make the right choice (encouraging him to look in his heart etc.).

It all worked out for the best for her son, and she was very glad of that, but had I simply predicted what was going to happen, the upcoming problem may very well have been a reality instead of being avoided. His free will could have put him with her in another state, raising a child that was not his, regretting having given up on his goal, or where he is now, happy, having fulfilled his goals, and in an honest loving relationship with someone he met later on.

I was able to give her the tools to try and influence his free will, but essentially it all came down to him, and being able to know for sure what it was he would choose, is impossible, because the choice is his and his alone to make when the time comes. Her influence and her support while he was going through the turmoil of his love pressuring him, was paramount in his making the choice he did. He even said so later on and thanked his mom for her concern and her delicate handling of his fragile emotional state at the time.

The use for a good Psychic Reading is knowing what obstacles and choices you are facing and will face in situations of concern, and what options would be better for you, what path would lead to what outcome, essentially knowledge and clarity to help you make the choices that are right for you, to keep you or get you on the right direction. It can also be helpful to look into the past, find patterns and issues that are buried deeply, affecting the present, the future. It is a holistic approach to preparing for life and all of the challenges and difficulties it can offer.

If you ask me, that is the real and useful information that can really empower people to affect positive change and growth in their lives, to help them find happiness, fulfillment and peace.

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